Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, and those with a special someone are likely trying to figure out a clever gift. Funny or serious? Romantic or raunchy? A man’s decision should be informed by what he knows about his lover – what he or she is comfortable with, what he or she likes and doesn’t. For some men, Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to buy both their lovers and themselves a little gift from an adult store. Below, a man will find some smart options to consider when shopping for sexy Valentine’s Day gifts, along with a final tip to boost penis health and, therefore, sexual health.
Men might be thinking that vibrators are what women use when men aren’t around, but they are tremendous additions to partner sex, both for the man and woman. They obviously come in handy during foreplay, but a vibrator can also be used to stimulate the woman’s clitoris during intercourse. The man will feel some vibrations himself as he thrusts, and his pleasure will be maximized as well.
This advancement in vibrator technology focuses the device as much on the man as the woman. One part fits inside her vagina, stimulating her G-spot, while the other vibrates against her clitoris. The awesome thing about this sleek design is that, unlike a traditional vibrator, this one can be worn while a man is penetrating a woman. This means he can benefit from the vibration as directly as she does, and both partners can experience a new level of ecstasy together.
Beginner’s Bondage Bliss
If bondage is something that has come up in previous conversation and a man’s partner has expressed comfort and interest, V-Day might be the right time to introduce some new supplies. Note: This option should not be pursued if it’s never been discussed before. “Hey, baby, I want to tie you up” – that’s something some partners revel in hearing, while others might just be terrified.
With proper discretion, though, a beginner’s bondage kit can serve as the perfect gift. If this is new territory for the couple, starting small is the smart way to go; a man might come on a bit too strong if he dives right into whips and nipple clamps. Begin with the bondage basics: soft handcuffs or other restraints, a feather for teasing and a blindfold. These can be used on one or both partners, which should be determined before beginning to enjoy these sensual toys.
Advanced Kinky Kit
If the domination-submission game is old news for a couple, this Valentine’s Day can be the time to up the ante – again, only if both partners have expressed interest in doing so. Once comfort with the bondage basics has been established, some partners might want to try out more restrictive restraints made of rougher materials, such as metal or rope. Whips or paddles are enjoyable additions for some. Finally, a ball gag can titillate certain partners. This last one in particular should be reserved for a time when plenty of trust and comfort have been established, since such a toy limits the user’s ability to vocalize. A secondary method of communicating, such as “tapping out,” should be settled upon.
Penis Care Product
When a man takes care of his precious equipment, he does both himself and his partner a favor. Men can boost the skin condition and appearance of their members by using a quality penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) that contains Shea butter and vitamin E. What’s better than smooth, silky, supple skin? Additional antioxidants and vitamins in these creams promote circulatory and nerve health, which could pay off in terms of erectile ability and the preservation of sensitivity – both vital to a healthy sex life.
There are a lot of women who are a little put off about their man watching porn or using sex toys. They feel that somehow it diminishes what they have and that it means that the man needs more than just them. It may sound strange but women can actually be jealous of magazines, movies and latex.
Women feel betrayed and angry because their man will usually hide his toy use and porn consumption. What women fail to understand is that this is an area that could actually draw the two of them closer if she will only let it. This attitude is not restricted to women, there are men who go ballistic when they find a vibrator in their woman’s arsenal.
The problem is that these insecure men and women see the sex toy as a rival instead of one more way they can find enjoyment with each other. The key to being comfortable with all things sexual is being confident.
Sex toys are not something that is new, they have been in use in some form since ancient times. While most people think of them as a piece of equipment for solo use, they can be used by couples to add a new dimension to their love. It is a way to take the taboo out of bedroom play. It might amaze many that there is still a very puritanical way of thinking when it comes to sex and what is acceptable.
Sex toys come in a variety of shapes, sizes and models. While the world is more accepting all forms of stimulating devices for women like vibrators and dildos, more and more you will find that the market is opening up for men sex toys.
We are all familiar with the jokes surrounding the “blow up doll” as a female substitute, but these are no longer the only item being made for men today. There are many hand held devices that make solo sexual satisfaction better. There are times when many couples find that coitus is not practical. It is at these times that the male sex toy can be a great relief.
The real trick to enjoying adult sex toys is that you and your mate become comfortable with your sexuality. You have to be able to enjoy sex with the lights on, without shame or inhibitions. The reason a lot of men hide their porn and sex toy use is that they have grown up in a society that have made it “TABOO” to do what comes naturally.
It is this prevailing attitude and the females insecurities that make men feel a sense of shame. We are trained to believe that sex is only to be an activity between a male and female. That pleasuring ones self is depraved somehow. Although we have become a more enlightened society these ingrained notions still exist to a certain degree. Adult sex toys are seen as items used by only a subversive subset and that “normal” couples do not need to enhance their sex play.
Before now the adult sex toys were delivered in those plain brown wrappers or you had to do a “cloak and dagger” routine so that no one would see you going into “one of those shops”. The Internet has changed all of this, you can now browse the catalogs of hundreds of sex shops, from the privacy of your own home
They say that when you are in love, you look at the world through rose tinted glasses. You are always willing to do anything to make your partner happy. What can make your partner happier than a steamy session in bed, every single time? Sex is a very crucial part of a relationship. Good physical compatibility is an assured way to let your love blossom with every passing day. Wondering what you can do to make this happen? Have you heard of sex toys for lovers?
These toys are the sure shot road to ecstasy. Most people dismiss the idea of indulging in such toys by calling them kinky and cheap. The other myth related to these toys is that it makes the partners insensitive towards each other. On the contrary, sex toys are the best way of expressing your care and concern for your lover. These toys for lovers are designed for the mutual pleasure and satisfaction of both the partners.
Adults toys increase the level of imagination and creativity in a fun way. The introduction is fun no doubt, but it also helps in developing a comfort level between the partners. These toys are the best way to let your partner know what your needs in bed are and also to find out his. Lately, a lot of women are taking interest in these sex toys for lovers. Their male partners are more than happy with this decision of introducing a third party in bed that does only good to the relationship.
There is a whole range of such toys, which are out for grabs in the market. Dildos, vibrators, DVDs, whips, handcuffs, erotic games and bonding tapes; the list is endless. Different couples have different preferences. The toys, which they eventually end up buying, are in accordance with these preferences. No matter how basic or advanced the sex toy is, the sole purpose of using it should be sinful pleasure, both for you as well as your partner.
Women are always on the hunt for ways in which they can keep their partners interested in them. Once you bring sex toys for lovers into your bedroom, you will never have to worry about your man straying. Men are aroused by visuals. The look of their partner using a vibrator is bound to arouse them in a matter of seconds. With this kind of improved and innovative sex life, which man will want to think of another woman?
No wonder these toys can cause a revolution in your life. However, it is advised that the introduction of these toys should be done gradually and gracefully. If you are just about beginning to use sex toys for lovers, begin with a basic toy. This will allow you and your partner to get comfortable with the idea of using a toy, before you begin to build a collection of them.
We are all becoming more open in our view to sex and the activities we participate in the bedroom, so if you purchased your partner a sex toy for valentines would this be accepted, or thrown in a draw never to be taken out of the package? Or should you just treat her to some sexy underwear or a sexy outfit?
For the men there is no question that we all love to see our woman in her favourite sexy underwear, whether this is sexy bra and knickers, a Basque or maybe a sexy costume. I know that if my partner puts on her sexy outfit she feels good because of the effect on me and what it will lead to.
We all have our preference for sexy lingerie or sexy underwear and we should forget that just a sexy night or chemise will also have the desired effect on both partners.
If you are at the beginning of your relationship you may not need sexy underwear or lingerie to spice up your sex life, and you don’t have to buy a sexy outfit for your partner just because it’s valentines.
For the blokes out there that do not like to go to shops and buy this intimate piece of clothing, or just don’t have the time, then the choice on-line is endless. In fact the choice of sexy underwear, lingerie, sexy nightwear and sexy costumes is so vast; the question becomes what is your budget and can you stick to it or will you just blow the budget completely and treat your partner more than you intend?
The sex toy market has exploded in recent years. So much so that the traditional vibrators which were initially just a vibrating piece of latex in the shape of a penis are a little boring when you look at what else is on offer.
If you think the choice of lingerie and sexy underwear is vast, then prepare to have your mind blown when you look at the range of sex toys.
The early days of the sex toy market was focused on the women who needed a little something extra when not in a relationship or while the partner was working away.
Nowadays the sex toy market is not just for women on their own, but men can get sex toys that they can use if not in a relationship, and is a more stimulating solution than masturbation alone.
The more liberal we are becoming in our sexual attitude and endeavours see’s the choice of adult sex toys that can and are used by both female and males.
If you are using or going to use a sex toy for the first time, whether male or female then I would advise the use of some oil or lube to start with. Not only does the oil or lube enhance the feeling, but it also make for more fun when rubbing into your partner.
So how would you feel if you received a sex toy for valentines or would you prefer to receive sexy underwear instead? Whichever your choice the ideal gift is available online at online adult stores where the choice is vast and the delivery is discreet and convenient.
Paul writes about what’s on his mind and what is relevant. With valentines approaching I want to give my view on what you could buy.